Christianity and Mom helping my enemies?

My mother has tried to control me with shame all my life. My body and mind are worn out from years of this and now I am on disability which makes things worse.
My mother and father helps my enemies. Here is some examples.

A man that they did not even know called them to get the scoop on me . My parents told them everything he wanted to know without knowing who he was. This man was recording my parents so he could take me to court. He did take me to court. It was disaster. They promised never to do anything so stu[id again. We talked about the common sense of not discussing me with total strangers
This still haunts me years Next. I had a couple that hates me beyond normal . The girl friend thinks that I affair with her boyfriend which I did not. This girl is a known drug user and was bipolar( she just died from the drugs) This girl would call my mom to get information and my mom would talk to her. This couple put me through Hell for 3 years. I tried to get an order of protection on the guy . They were on a daily basis calling me 600 times a day and filing false police reports. both with the police and FBI.
I
tried to get my phone records from the police to file an order of protection against one of them , but the police gave me the run around. However the calles to my mom and my niece showed up clearly on her phone records,but my mother refused to let me have these records and gave some bogus story that she did not want to be involved and she did not want my niece involved. So my mother just let me go through this hell when she could have helped with her phone records. This nightmare went on for 3 years until the police finally made them stop. This whole thing could have been prevent with my moms phone records as that was the only proof that I had. It would not have affected her or my niece.

Next I get sued in a extremely complex civil case. The entire case started when a person representing the plaintiff called my mother for information about me and she freely gives it out without even having a clue who she is talking too and breaking a promise to never do something so stupid again. This has been the biggest nightmare of my life. It has only begun and has cost me two years of
my salary. The case could have been thrown out except they brought up what my mother said and it proceeded. There was no other reason. Now twice she has gone to this company and done business with them and falsely accused me to them so now I will look worse in court.

My mom claims to be a christian and give her money to the Salvation Army , But I could never make a connection with God as I associate God with her.

My question is why is my mom doing this cruel things to me and how do I get her to stop? I am
financially disadvantage as I have post traumatic stress disorder and live on disability and now have to pay for this bogus law suit. Please do not tell me to go to counseling as I can not afford it and Mom wont go as the mere mention of it makes her insane as she asserts that she has no problem