How do I know if what I'm doing is top priority in my life?

I'm in college. I'm 19. My boyfriend and I live with my parents, (in separate rooms, of course.) I am attempting to get a job. We're moving to Texas in 2 years, my parents are moving to Arkansas. My mother suffers from too many mental and physical illnesses to put, I want to keep this as short as possible. There is a lot of stress in my house, and I find it particularly hard, and exhausting to find a job. So I'm chipping away at it, taking one business at a time, calling and re-calling, y'know... but my father thinks I should be helping around the house more. So I stray from job hunting to cleaning the house constantly. It seems like my boyfriend and I just can't catch up. But then my father says, "How's the job searching going? Don't you think you should be doing that instead of cleaning the house?" So I go back to job hunting. The house slowly gets dusty, etc... and the cycle starts again. I'm finding it difficult to juggle all of these tasks that nobody has problems doing. I feel depressed, like I'm in a fog I can't see my way out of, and overly stressed, and I haven't done ANYTHING in a month. Nothing I do is right. My self esteem has pretty much plummeted, so I've decided to take one thing at a time. I want to please my dad. My mom can't handle cleaning the house anymore. I can't get a job. I'm starting classes in 2 weeks, taking more than the average amount of hours... what should I be focusing on? School? Cleaning? Finding a job? I'm really, really confused. It feels like it should be obvious, but it's just not for some reason... I feel kind of dumb typing this out, because I know I'm not the only one. I guess I just need some advice from somebody.