dazed_n_confused
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« on: August 06, 2011, 05:29:09 AM » |
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So I met this girl a few weeks ago and we have been hanging out quite a bit. We are both very comfortable with each other and I really like her. We both have a great way of showing affections toward one another. On Saturday, we went on a date. She had insisted on paying for my ticket to a movie since I've paid for her on the last few dates. After the movie, I went back to her house and we ate ice cream and watched TV. Before I leave, she tells me to text her when I get home so she knows I made it home safe. So the next day I see on facebook that she's in a relationship with another guy then she removes me on facebook. Do I have a right to mad since we weren't technically dating? It also sucks because I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend on our next date  any other thoughts on this? Do you think its possible for her to give me a call and want me back? |
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kmn728
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« Reply #1 on: August 06, 2011, 06:25:36 AM » |
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its pretty messed up to go on dates with someone and act like u like them and then randomly start dating someone else. shes probably not worth it if shes gonna do that.
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Nalitia_Turner
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« Reply #2 on: August 06, 2011, 09:44:49 AM » |
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These are the kinda girls who make us look bad :/ I'm sorry but dont try pursuing a relationship with her when she lied about something that important
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I_AM_IBRAHIM
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« Reply #3 on: August 06, 2011, 11:35:50 AM » |
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MR watch movie "500 days of summer".this is completely based on your problem!get rid of her from your life as fast as possible!
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Wonders_
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« Reply #4 on: August 06, 2011, 04:47:37 PM » |
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She picked the other guy over you, and if she does want you back, you'l just be the rebound. I'd forget about her I'm sorry And she should of told you she was seeing other people too |
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Maddy_C
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« Reply #5 on: August 06, 2011, 06:12:45 PM » |
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Personally, I don't think she's worth your time and effort. If you've been going on dates (even if you're not officially dating) it's not right to give you the wrong impression that something might happen between the two of you. Especially if she doesn't even care to keep you on FB... Find someone new who appreciates you more!
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Shannon_Shaw
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« Reply #6 on: August 06, 2011, 09:02:44 PM » |
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if she really loved/cared about you, she'll realize it and come crawling back. but my suggestion is to make her feel like complete shit for about a week. make her feel guilty. tell her how much you cared about her, and if you don't like her, kick her to the curb coldly  |
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the_emperor
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« Reply #7 on: August 06, 2011, 09:23:00 PM » |
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To answer your core question: NO there is NO chance of her wanting you back. And even if it doesn't work out with this other guy and she WERE to actually have the nerve to call you back, YOU will tell her NO that you are NO LONGER INTERESTED in her. And do you know why you will do this? Because YOU now know that she only goes out with you until somebody she's hot for comes along.
FYI---if you were not "technically dating" each other, then what you did last Saturday night was NOT going out on a date. It was a girl going out with a guy that she had no romantic interest in because she didn't have a real date to go out on, but she at least had the decency to pay YOUR way so as not to let you believe that this was a real date. Let me ask you this: all the times that you previously went out together, did you EVER KISS EACH OTHER? And you KNOW that I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or closed lips!
Not to be rude here, but you see in my younger days I MYSELF USED TO go out on a lot of those non-dates that YOU just went out on last Saturday night, so I speak from experience. SO here's what I suggest that you do: either click on my avatar and check out my advice to other guys that want to get more dates, OR simply cut to the chase and go to askmen.com and read the advice of Doc Love and David D'Angelo. They turned my dating life around from hit and miss to complete success and now happily married to a woman most guys turn and look at when she enters the room! Good Luck!
His Utmost Excellency, the Emperor, has spoken!
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Gavon
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« Reply #8 on: August 06, 2011, 09:28:19 PM » |
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Well first, why would you want her to? Sounds like she played you! YES YOU DO HAVE A RIGHT TO BE MAD! I'd say forget her and move completely on and if she wants another shot, don't give it to her because you don't do that to people. It just doesn't work like that...
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Maggie_Thomas
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« Reply #9 on: August 06, 2011, 09:34:44 PM » |
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Id be pissed if I were you, she totally led you on and she kinda lied by making herself seem available and I bet that other guy didn't know about you. Ik you guys have a lot in common and it seemed rly awesome but only a btch would do that, so I say forget about her
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