THIS IS BOUT CHILD SUPPORT?

My fiance has a 6 yr old lil girl named briana and he pays her mom 400.00 a month in child support but for the last 50 days the child has been in our care has not seen her mom once her mom ain't even asked for her back this has happened alot but so far this is the longest shes stayed with us without seeing her mom at all we added it up and since aug of last yr hes kept her OVER half the yr like the majority of the yr but it seems so damn hard for him to get it lowered or dropped she wants to live with us i ask her i say you no if you want to go home ill call your mom and ask if you can come home she says NOOOOOO i don't want to go home i want to stay here forever even tho her own mom don't ask for her back i need to no WHAT he can do cause we keep her all the time we buy her EVERYTHING she has she has a 4ft pool over here all the power Wheel toys plenty of toys new clothes 2 story house 2 computers she has a dsi she has alot to do here basically he pays for everything at her moms her mom don't work so everything she gets comes from him and she don't get any of it shes here all the time so how can her mom think its fair to keep all that money every week it come her daughter don't receive a dime of it over at her moms she has nothing to do she lives in a 1 bedroom apartment with her mom and baby sister she has no yard to play ion no nothing at all briana even told me one time that her mom throwaway her toys cause she couldn't clean them up and its true cause she has no toys over there ive been in there on top of it all Briana's mom has 3 kids in all she has a baby she gave up for adoption cause she told briana the reason is she couldn't afford milk but she got preg after that and said she was going to keep the baby cause the guy loved her but she had a miscarriage briana says if she asks her mom Just to go play with another lil girl she will whoop her hard briana is terrified of her mom you can see the fear in this girls eyes when her mom is near i asked her one day when she told e she NEVER wanted to go back to her moms and she never wants to see her mom again i said briana is it that bad over there and she looked at me with them heartbroken eyes and said yes what can we do i stay all to hell when she ever does go over there cause all the stuff she says goes on over there witch its going to be a good while for she goes back but do you no anyone with a situation like this can you plz help us we love her and don't want her hurt and we don't think its right shes receiving full amount and we got her all the time thank you

I'm too old to read long paragraphs without breaks, so in my opinion, if he has had the child longer then 30 days, and this is not covered under a normal extended visitation order, he can file change of custody of a child in need of care. This will teach him how to prepare and how to hire an attorney.
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For 22 years, I have volunteered my time working with divorced and single fathers dealing in family law issues, most especially child support issues along with what the states are not teaching support obligors.
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Your partner needs to "Cover Your a$$ in paperwork" and prepare for a court battle.
1. He needs to have documentation of how often the child stays with you two, and take that to court for a re-assessment of the amount of support. Also any calls to the mother and what she says/excuses about picking her up again.
2. He should also have kept proof (receipts) of those things he has paid for for the child's exclusive use - either here or at her mum's - clothes, school books/uniforms, etc.
3. Document what the child says about her mother, and better still have a professional in the Child Psychiatry field assess what, if any, damage her mother has done to her.

file for am immediate custody hearing. if she doesn't show he will win by default. that is how my ex won custody of my kids when she scheduled a custody hearing while i was on deployment and the courts said "oh well, not our problem". bring all documentation, take digital pictures every day of them at your house with a date stamped on them to show proof they were in your care. it is unfortunate that he is paying "child support" when it obviously is not going toward the kid. that is the way it goes 99% of the time with child support. good luck