You are trying to justify what you want to accept as okay and that is not true love for God. This is not an opinion and the Bible is not full of opinions. It is clear and no amount of your unbiblical justifications will change how God feels about sodomy and any unnatural sexual act. You know this in your heart so accept it or continue down your current path and find how not loving God and trying to justify in public what God despises and will never accept will leave you in a very hot place. What are you doing girl?
http://www.the-ten-commandments.org/seventh_commandment.html